Life skills

None of this is expert advice. It's what people worked out for themselves, usually the hard way — what actually helped, and what they'd tell someone standing where you are. Take what fits and leave the rest.

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  1. Start saving for retirement now.

    The younger you start, the more you will have thanks to compound interest, which does all the heavy lifting.

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  2. Learn to cook basic meals for yourself.

    You will save money, eat healthy, and feel more capable.

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  3. Read books to improve your mindset, focusing on genres you enjoy; if you dislike reading, do not force it.

    It puts you in a better mindset and continues learning.

    • If you really don't like reading, don't sweat it.

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  4. Learn hard skills, especially in CS fields.

    Age is irrelevant if you know how to solve people's problems.

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  5. Learn basic daily life skills such as cooking simple meals, cleaning, and doing laundry if you do not already know how.

    Many adults lack these essential self-care abilities.

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  1. Write down family recipes to preserve them for the future.

    to keep the cooking with you after the person is gone

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  2. Cook food for yourself to boost your confidence, even if the result is poor.

    It provides a good confidence boost.

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  3. Participate in school activities to meet people.

    To meet people.

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  4. Sit with yourself honestly to work out whether past decisions and current plans are worth it.

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  1. Seek out videos on bullet journaling to help organize your life further.

    Might help even more

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  2. Exercise every day.

    Exercise is your friend.

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  3. Learn to cook to build confidence in doing new things, improve organization skills, and maintain discipline in cleaning and grocery shopping.

    One person gained confidence and organizational discipline through this.

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  4. Learn basic life skills such as cooking, laundry, and home maintenance.

    Maintaining a house requires significant effort and hiring tradesmen is expensive.

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  5. Engage with real life as the ultimate antidote to social media obsession.

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