Employment
None of this is expert advice. It's what people worked out for themselves, usually the hard way — what actually helped, and what they'd tell someone standing where you are. Take what fits and leave the rest.
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Live off one partner's salary while saving the other's income to reduce stress.
It results in much less stress.
- This approach requires sacrifice, such as driving old vehicles, choosing tiny houses, or skipping vacations.
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Verify that overtime is paid at the correct rate and reject counter checks for regular wages if shorted.
Employers may attempt to pay overtime hours at the regular wage rate.
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Give as little notice as possible when quitting if you are owed outstanding cash.
To ensure you don't get stiffed for outstanding cash.
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Track unpaid overtime hours to calculate potential back pay claims.
Small amounts of unpaid time accumulate over long periods.
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Aim for higher-paying jobs with flexible dress codes rather than remaining in minimum-wage roles with strict attire requirements.
Minimum wage jobs often carry higher risks and costs due to strict dress codes, creating a poverty trap.
- There are some obvious exceptions to this general rule.
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Hand out cash tips directly to staff members before an event starts to ensure they are compensated fairly.
Personally handing each staff member a bill (e.g., $50) and thanking them early ensures they are paid and motivated.
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Budget your household expenses based strictly on a standard 40-hour work week.
Overtime income is not guaranteed.
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Ask your manager for additional uniform shirts if you were only provided one, explaining that a clean uniform is a core standard.
Clean uniforms are a core standard and managers typically understand the need for more than one shirt.
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Refuse to pay for worn-out uniforms and tell bosses you will wear less ragged shirts only when the company provides them, which may lead to receiving new shirts for free.
One person reported that standing ground on this issue eventually led the company to provide new shirts for free.
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Present mock project work via live communication channels like Teams, Google Chat, or Discord instead of sending files.
This proves the work functions without handing over the source files.
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Push back on requirements to buy high-value items like smartwatches unless the employer provides them, especially if the company does not pay well.
It is unreasonable to ask employees to buy such items unless the company pays a lot or needs them for work tracking software, in which case the employer should provide them.
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Report unapproved timesheets and withheld pay to the labor board with screenshots as evidence.
One person reported that this led to an investigation and the firing of their boss.
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Check your paystub every pay period to verify accuracy.
Payroll staff may forget to add holiday pay or mistype overtime hours.
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Set strict limits on overtime hours to protect personal time.
Overtime consumes precious personal time, which is treated as a currency.
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Keep copies of all work-related emails and screenshots of databases regarding hours and PTO by forwarding them to separate accounts.
Paperwork wins cases.
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If your manager fails to approve your timesheet, escalate the issue to their supervisor or the payroll department.
There should be accommodations for such situations.
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Consider working at the post office for stable income and overtime opportunities.
One person reported it changed their life by providing predictable paychecks and ample overtime depending on the craft and area.
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Have a supervisor sign your physical timesheet in addition to keeping your own digital copy.
This provides proof of your presence and hours worked.
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Store scanned documents on an external drive that remains disconnected except when in use.
to improve security
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Wear slightly damp clothes rather than dirty ones when washing facilities are limited.
Slightly damp clothes are better than dirty ones.
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Assume you must be the gatekeeper of your proper pay, as payroll systems are not invested in ensuring fair earnings.
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Include a digital signature in asset metadata when submitting files for interviews.
The signature remains visible even after the recipient downloads the file.
- It is trivially easy to wipe metadata from most file formats.
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Regularly check your absentee and vacation hour balances.
These balances are often wrong.
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Keep hard copies of military or federal personnel records in a personal file, as digital systems can fail or lose documents.
hard copies allow you to get corrections if digital records are lost or fail
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Refuse employment with mandatory overtime; ensure overtime remains optional.
Mandatory overtime conditions workers to rely on extra money, making it difficult to quit if the company stops providing it.
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Be aware that some employers may intentionally reduce hours on paychecks to keep wages within a mandated percentage of expenditure.
- This practice relies on employees not checking their pay stubs.
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Network with school staff and administrators to secure better substitute teaching assignments.
Being friendly and somewhat assertive can help you get better assignments through networking.
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If overpaid for overtime hours actually worked at straight time, ensure the deduction only covers the difference between overtime pay and straight time, not the entire amount.
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Calculate your own pay whenever your paycheck differs from normal, even if the change is expected.
Payroll sometimes makes mistakes, particularly during edge cases like mid-period promotions, bonuses, commissions, or unpaid time off.
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Audit your PTO accruals regularly to ensure they are increasing correctly and not being deducted erroneously.
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Log into your computer system to view pay stubs regularly rather than assuming payroll is correct.
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If an interview task feels related to a real proprietary project, suggest a mock topic instead; walk away if there is resistance.
Requests for proprietary work are a red flag.
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Do not inform your current employer that you are looking for other jobs.
Bosses may monitor social media or job sites to see if employees are distracted, which can lead to negative consequences.
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Ask employers what would happen if you were hospitalized to judge job security and exploitation risk.
It reveals whether productivity pressure is just corporatist propaganda or if there is a real plan for your absence.
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Apply for jobs outside your typical area of experience.
One person reported getting jobs this way.
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Be skeptical of employers who deny previously approved PTO or hours.
It raises questions about what else they might lie about and whether you are liked at the workplace.
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Seek welding apprenticeships at smaller fabrication shops.
These shops are more common and typically less unionized than larger firms.
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Check local laws regarding mandatory purchases of employer products or uniforms, as this is often illegal.
It is often illegal.
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Inflate past work accomplishments and project confidence to mask desperation during job interviews.
This approach helped one person successfully secure jobs.
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