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Look for the next job while you still like this one

Years in, a good review, a three per cent raise. Some people say the time to look is now, while you are secure, not when you are desperate.

Built from people several years into a job who asked for a raise and got the standard few per cent. The US continuation-cover lines were checked against Department of Labor guidance for this page on 2026-09-04.

The review was good and the raise was three per cent, and you have started doing the sum on the way home. People are the source here, and some people say the same first thing about when to act on it.

Look while you are still secure, and still like the place. Desperation is a bad time to choose.

Employed and settled is when you can turn down a bad offer, they say, and some people add that unhappiness makes bad jobs look good. Others say the signal is not a feeling but a fact: if your pay or your growth has stalled and asking has not moved it, that is when the search starts. Many people say why the outside offer pays more than the inside raise — the budget to hire is bigger than the budget to keep — and others say plainly that loyalty mostly benefits the employer.

Three lines stand above the strategy. Never wave an offer you would not take, one person warns; some people warn a counter-offer is often temporary or ends in being managed out, and some people say it marks you as a flight risk. If stability and the people are what you value, some people say staying is a perfectly good choice. And for readers in the US, the insurance bridge when you leave has a sixty-day window and is retroactive — from one person’s own correction and one person’s line, checked. Where the whole strategy fails — trades, government, teaching, small firms, children, and a labour market that is not the one people argued about — is the fourth question.

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Why look now? I don’t hate this job.

Because now is when you can afford to be choosy, and people are clear that the alternative is looking from a worse position. Some people say the best time to search is while you are employed and secure — you keep your leverage, you can turn down a bad offer, and you are not choosing under pressure. Some people add the emotional version: look while you are still happy, because misery makes bad jobs look good. Some people give the signal that it is time: if your development or your pay has stalled and asking for a raise has not moved it, that is the sign — waiting for the company to act is not a plan. Some people say to ask before you look: request a meeting, say plainly what you have done relative to the person before you, and ask for a specific timeline for a raise, so that the answer informs the search. Others add the craft: know your market value from the postings first and ask your employer for it before anything else; treat your current paycheque as your employer’s best offer, so a new job only has to beat it; apply for roles where you are about half qualified, because a posting is a wish-list and employers hire people who meet most of it; secure the new position before you resign, and use your leave for interviews; and change into interview clothes after you leave work, not during the day. One person says a job pays twice — in wages now and in what you learn — and that if you have stopped learning, the second salary has stopped — and, they say, you should leave; one person warns coasting on knowledge of one place, without keeping your skills current, is what makes the next job hard to get. One person says staying too long is how you end up paid less than the people hired after you, and another says recruiters read a long stint without a promotion as its own kind of flag — which sits against the flag on the other side, in the fourth question. One person, from a long and demoralising search, says the process itself is slow and full of template rejections for jobs that are reposted months later — which is one more reason to start while you have a salary.

Is loyalty really not rewarded?

Not in money, people say, and they are more careful about the size of the difference than the headlines are. Many people say that switching employers brings a larger pay rise than staying, because the budget to hire someone new is bigger than the budget to keep someone, and some people say the blunt version: a company treats labour as replaceable and loyalty mostly benefits the employer. Some people say the ordinary annual raise trails inflation, which makes an outside offer look better every year — the page on this site about a raise below inflation carries the arithmetic. Some people say a company goes on seeing you as the person it hired, so the wider work you have grown into is recognised elsewhere first; others say loyalty should be reciprocal, and that being a good employee is not the same thing as being loyal to a firm that is not loyal back. The size of the jump is argued, and this page prints no figure as typical: one person reports nearly doubling by applying, another says a thirty per cent rise is ‘pretty unheard of’ and suspects a typo, and one person who reported a fivefold jump edited it to four. One person deflates the nostalgia too: the idea that people once got large raises every year for forty years does not survive the arithmetic. The one-person reasons behind the ceiling: managers in large firms are held to a low annual pot and rejected for small raises by people above them; a manager may lack the authority at all; a big raise for one person causes friction with peers, so hiring from outside is the quieter route; and one person says your value to a company is what it would cost to replace you, not how good you are. The case for staying, from individual people: pension or share vesting, stock, and the extra holiday that only comes with years — hopping resets all of them; and one person says loyalty to a company can still fail you when a role is relocated or cut, so the loyalty worth having is to your own trajectory.

They matched the offer. Do I take the counter-offer?

Some people say no, and the ones who say yes say it carefully. Some people say accepting a counter-offer marks you as a flight risk: the raise you extracted reduces the ones that follow, they say. Some people say a counter-offer works to keep you and raise your pay, and one person says one led to a promotion; some people warn it is often temporary and that the person who took one is sometimes managed out afterwards; one person warns that once you disclose you are looking, the employer may start replacing you, and one person warns that threatening to leave more than once ends with the door. People argue this too: some people say leaving is simply how pay rises; one person says a counter-offer led to a promotion and that staying and negotiating worked for them. People also argue whether to disclose an outside offer at all — use it as leverage, or never let them know you looked, some people on each side. One person says some employers refuse to match on principle, to stop everyone bringing fake offers, or because replacing you is cheaper; another says an outside offer sometimes produced a raise larger than the offer itself. The rule under all of it, one person warns: the offer must be real and you must be willing to take it. This page draws the personal line — if you value long-term stability where you are, do not use an offer as a lever, and do not rely on a counter-offer if being labelled a flight risk worries you. On the negotiation itself, others say: find the priorities that do not match — remote work against salary, holiday against hourly rate — so both sides can gain; say less, because the side that talks least is usually in control; time the ask to the company’s budget planning; and if the raise is refused, get the specific criteria for the next one. How to turn an outside offer into an internal raise without risking your job is a gap people named, and this page leaves it open.

Where does this advice fail?

In more places than the headline admits, and people list them. Some people say the whole strategy is built for white-collar and technical work and fails in trades, specialised or seniority-based fields where pay rises with time served; one person says a welder’s progression is linear, and others say government pay is capped and moves only when everyone gets a rise or a higher position falls vacant, teachers rise mainly by moving into administration or a dearer area, and small firms under a hundred people rightly distrust a hopper because hiring costs them dearly. One person warns the advice is skewed toward high-ceiling industries, and some people warn that norms differ by sector — one person says two and a half years is normal in software and would look odd elsewhere. The stigma is real: some people say moving in under a year is read by recruiters as a red flag because of the onboarding cost, and that five years across four employers reads worse than five across two; one person warns the same; some people say senior roles in particular are wary of it; one person warns a hopper who coasts rather than learns finds the next move harder. Some people argue the trajectory between ‘hopping is how careers grow’ and ‘hopping signals instability and costs you the long-term roles’, and people’s decider is your industry and your stage. On stage: some people say the strategy suits the early career, when obligations are few, and that later the balance tips toward stability and the benefits that need years; some people say moving every few years is hard on children and on friendships — one person answers that it teaches children to make friends, and some people object that the emotional cost of leaving a good team is real and the ‘we are a family’ line is sometimes manipulative and sometimes true. Some people hold the other honest position: if you like the people, the work and the pay, it is perfectly acceptable to stay; one person says do not fix what is not broken; some people say pay is not the only driver, and one person says culture and benefits are a valid reason to accept less. One person says a fair number of people simply do not want promotion or management and would rather have their evenings. The practical caveats: the strategy assumes you can relocate, that local opportunities exist and that you are employable enough to be hired each time you move — some people object that those assumptions exclude a great many readers; long commutes limit it; a new boss can be worse than the old one; and one person warns a higher salary saves you nothing if you spend the whole rise, so keep the saving as a percentage.

What about insurance, notice periods and the ‘workers have all the power now’ argument?

Two US lines, two gaps, and one argument this page will not join. For readers in the US, one person says health insurance is usually the job’s, which makes any move a coverage question; on the bridge, one person self-corrected the window to elect continuation cover from ninety days to sixty, and another says the cover is retroactive, so you can elect it later within the window if you need it, so you need not pay from day one if you expect new cover soon. This page checked both against US Department of Labor guidance and they hold; the cost of that cover is not printed here. One person says a good share of non-compete clauses would not survive a court, particularly where the employee got nothing for signing — this page carries that as one person’s claim. Enforceability differs by US state and a federal ban was set aside in court — this page’s own line, checked separately, and how non-competes and notice periods bind you where you live is a gap people named and a question for legal advice, not this page. One person offers the move the page has not mentioned: switching departments inside the same company, which brought them a large raise and a better manager without leaving. On the market: some people argue whether workers had unprecedented power to shop around, with the other side saying qualified candidates were still being ignored and that any leverage sat in a few industries; those arguments belong to the year they happened, and this page prints no claim about the market you are in now. One person says collective bargaining gives more durable leverage than any individual negotiation, which is another subject. What people also left open: how to handle a gap if the search takes time, the tax side of changing jobs, and how to leave a team you love — the last of which, some people object, is the cost the whole strategy ignores.

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