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Don’t drink your way through the shyness
One small thing you could do
Heading somewhere social and nervous? Decide the drink plan before you leave — a number, chosen calm — so the anxiety doesn’t get to renegotiate it at the bar.
One piece of advice for your night out, from someone who learned it the hard way: don’t drink too much. I used to handle my anxiety that way, and it burned me badly.